GoodBird’s roots are grounded in the heart of Cat Island, Bahamas, where my family’s story began long before I ever set foot there. In the 1970s, my grandparents, John and Mary Lou Muhl, bought land on the island, looking for a place where the family could enjoy time together. But my grandfather, John—who became known as "Big Daddy"—wasn't just building a family home; he was unknowingly building a connection with the people of Cat Island that would last for generations.

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After his time serving in Vietnam, my dad, Steve Muhl, and his friend Jack Fry were sent to supervise the construction of the house. My grandfather thought it would be a good way for my dad to take a break from the political climate in the U.S. post-war, and Cat Island seemed like the perfect escape. It wasn’t long before our family became part of the local community, interacting daily with the people who called the island home.

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Now, I’ll be honest, John was a rough-around-the-edges kind of guy. He had a burly, larger-than-life presence, and there were plenty of arguments along the way. That’s why, when I hear stories about his quiet generosity, it’s always a bit of a juxtaposition for me. But, despite the gruff exterior, he had a way of showing up for others when they needed it the most.

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If you needed something—a set of tires, parts for your car, or a loan for school—John would find a way to help. He didn’t make a big deal about it. He wasn’t the type to brag or seek attention for his acts of kindness. If anything, his generosity was just part of how he navigated life.  One Christmas, while my dad was serving in Vietnam, my grandfather sent over a shipping container filled with presents, candy, and Pepsi for the children there.  He knew the kids deserved a little bit of joy, even in the middle of a warzone – though I’m sure my grandmother, Mary Lou, gently reminded him to make it happen.

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Whether it was providing jobs, supporting locals in learning a trade, or sending gifts to children halfway across the world, John and Mary Lou’s generosity touched many lives. He often helped people pursue education or vocational training, encouraging them to pay it forward and uplift their community. One time, I met a man in Nassau who, when I mentioned John’s name, lit up and said, “Oh, Big Daddy! He bought my parents their first TV.” It’s stories like that—random but impactful—that remind me of the far-reaching effects of his kindness.

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As I reflect on my grandfather’s life, I’m reminded of a quote he wrote to me: “I am sure if you will put forth the extra effort we all have inside of us that no one can stop you from being the best you can be.” It’s this belief in potential and hard work that underpinned everything he did, even if he didn’t always show it outwardly.

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My dad, Steve, has carried on this legacy of giving, but in a way that’s a bit more public. He’s always been involved in volunteering and giving back to his community. I guess I always knew the importance of helping others, but it wasn’t until I saw my father in action that it really hit home. I realized that I, too, could make a difference.

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Cat Island is, to me, the most beautiful place in the world. For many years, my family didn’t return to Cat Island, and life took us away from the place we loved. But a few years ago, we decided it was time to go back. I was nervous about how we’d be received after so long, but the warmth and kindness of the people immediately made us feel at home again. It reminded me that while Cat Island is one of the most beautiful places in the world, it’s the people who make it truly special. Their spirit and generosity inspire me to give back, lift others up, and spread kindness through action—just as my family always did.  -Alisha